"Every love story has a life "
" There is life after love failure" @saimegh

 “每个人爱情故事都有生命”
              
                 “失恋后有生命”. @saimegh

Here I ( siddarth) and she refers to ( Ashu Reddy)

在这里（siddarth），她指的是（Ashu Reddy）

In my story was she was an office colleague and wasn’t my relative.

在我的故事中，她是一个办公室的同事，不是我的亲戚。

When we broke up, this exact situation was my concern. How can I face her knowing that now she can’t be mine ever again. I was literally running away from her. I tried my best to avoid situations where I had to confront her. It was a total nightmare. I came back home on a leave when she was getting married and I remember on the day of her wedding I was shattered. I was in pieces and I started wondering how I am going to go back to that same office where I used to share a cup of coffee with a pinch of laughter with the very same girl.

当我们分手时，这个确切的情况是我的关切。我怎么能面对她呢，知道现在她再也不可能了。我真的跑离了她。我尽全力避免我不得不面对她的情况。这是一场完全的恶梦。当我结婚的时候，我回到家休假，我记得婚礼当天我被粉碎了。我是在碎片，我开始想知道我将如何回到同一个办公室，在那里我曾经和同一个女孩分享一杯咖啡，一阵笑声。

With a heavy heart I resumed my office, and came to know that she will not be joining for another month. I was relieved to some extent although the thoughts kept shuffling in my mind like a power point presentation. But after a month, circumstances changed and I had to resign to join a new company and a new country.

有一个沉重的心，我恢复了我的办公室，并且知道她不会加入一个月。我在某种程度上被放宽了，虽然思想在我的脑海里像一个力量表现一样洗牌。但一个月后，情况发生变化，我不得不辞职加入新公司和新的国家。

I realised that this is my silver lining. I realised there is still hope in life and that He has looking over me. He has closed the chapter in entirety and has bestowed me with a new opportunity. I left the place with mixed feelings as I was there for quite a long time but eventually I started a new beginning.

我意识到这是我的衬衣。我意识到生活中仍然有希望，他看着我。他已经把这一章全部结束了，给了我一个新的机会。我离开这个地方有不同的感觉，因为我在那里很长一段时间，但最终我开始了一个新的开始。

My point is, that although my situation was bit different, time healed everything. You had never expressed your feelings to him and you have assumed that he loved you. Honestly, there was nothing to begin with (no offence). It would have been more severe if you were in relationship.

我的观点是，虽然我的情况有些不同，但时间治愈了一切。你从来没有表达过对他的感受，而且你已经认为他爱你了。老实说，没有什么可以开始的（没有进攻）。如果你在关系中会更严重。

Try diverting your mind for a while. Travel to some nice place with friends, have some quality time with people. Try not to be alone and try to keep yourself busy.

尝试转移你的头脑一段时间。与朋友一起旅行到一个不错的地方，与人有一些美好的时光。尽量不要孤单，尽量保持自己的忙碌。

Face it and don’t let it break you. Keep yourself together and trust me when I say this, time will take care of it.

面对它，不要让它打破你。保持自己在一起，相信我，当我这样说，时间会照顾它。

There will be no love like first love/ 没有像爱一样的爱

My next post will be on why I hate job interviews?