Today's #freewrite prompt (by @mariannewest) got me triggered once again as soon as I read it. As a father of two kids, I have a strong opinion on that topic.
What are core values?
For me, every kid should be equipped with a set of core values. I educate(d) my kids with a few simple ones:
- be polite
- always say "hello" and "goodbye"
- no one ever got hurt for saying "thanks" or "please"
- respect others, no matter where they come from - we all are humans!
- always ask before taking something, especially if you are a guest
- have a helping hand whenever possible/needed
- respect rules, be it at home or be it outside
- respect nature, be it plants or animals (we are only guest on this planet)
It was - no, it is - a process of constant repeating and reminding our kids to respect and actually keep this values alive. Every day, when I see them keeping this core values with them, is a good day. And a gentle reminder when they hurt one or more of them always brings them back on the right track. That's how I educate and guide my kids.
What are the core values in your family? I would love to hear them in the comments.