Thanks to @dove11 for the initiative and motivation to write and to @solperez for the invitation. We must appreciate that love at first sight cannot be considered "love" as such. For this to germinate other things are necessary, essentially because to really fall in love you must really "know" the other person, I put it in quotation marks because do you really get to know someone in their entirety?...for reflection.
Tuve tres relaciones de “amor” en mi vida, a los 15 años la primera, me enamoré sola, creo que se hizo muy evidente que me sentí atraída por el chico, el cual era mi amigo y tenia novia, me conformaba con pasar horas con él estudiando o conversando cuando ocurrió que rompió con su novia y allí estaba yo como preparada para la oportunidad, cosa que duró muy poco, pero fue mi primer beso, le escribí mi primer poema amoroso, le dio sentido a todas las canciones de amor, mi primer desamor...Una experiencia que ahora a los lejos veo y siento fantástica, necesaria como parte de la persona que hoy soy.
I had three "love" relationships in my life, at 15 years old the first one, I fell in love alone, I think it became very evident that I was attracted to the guy, who was my friend and had a girlfriend, I was content to spend hours with him studying or talking when it happened that he broke up with his girlfriend and there I was as prepared for the opportunity, something that lasted very little, but it was my first kiss, I wrote him my first love poem, it gave meaning to all the love songs, my first dislike. ... An experience that now from afar I see and feel fantastic, necessary as part of the person I am today.
En la segunda fui yo la malvada, ya tenía 19 años, un vecino 6 años mayor que yo desde que me mudé a mi casa, comenzó a enamorarme pasaron tres años para que por “cansancio” le di el sí, creo que él se enamoró a primera vista, yo ahora pienso que nunca lo estuve de él, sufrió mucho con la ruptura seis meses después, llegó a odiarme hasta que se casó.
In the second one I was the evil one, I was already 19 years old, a neighbor 6 years older than me since I moved to my house, he began to fall in love with me, three years passed before I said yes to him because I was "tired", I think he fell in love at first sight, now I think I was never in love with him, he suffered a lot with the breakup six months later, he came to hate me until he got married.
Y por ultimo pasé 14 años ocupándome de mi, estudiaba, trabajaba, hacia voluntariado, viajaba, amigos muchos, rompía uno que otro corazón en oportunidades (nunca deliberadamente) y cuando tenía 33 y había decidido no casarme… conocí a mi esposo. No puedo decir que le amé a primera vista, pero si sentía que él era definitivo. Fue muy rápido, tuvimos conversaciones tan largas y profundas que creo que nos conocimos el alma primero que todo, en pocos días... él cinco años menor. Ambos pertenecíamos a los Scouts y ese fue el inicio de 27 años de noviazgo que aun tenemos en los cuales hemos estado casados 25.
And finally I spent 14 years taking care of myself, I studied, worked, volunteered, traveled, made many friends, broke one or another heart at times (never deliberately) and when I was 33 and had decided not to get married... I met my husband. I can't say I loved him at first sight, but I did feel that he was definite. It was very fast, we had such long and deep conversations that I think we knew each other soul first of all, in a few days... he was five years younger. We both belonged to the Scouts and that was the beginning of 27 years of dating that we still have in which we have been married 25.
Creo que en la selección de la pareja hay de todo , ocurren muchas cosas, pero considero que debe ser tiempo de calidad el que se dedique y te lleve a la selección, la primera vista es fugaz, frágil…
I think that in the selection of a partner there is everything, many things happen, but I believe that it must be quality time that is dedicated and leads you to the selection, the first sight is fleeting, fragile...