Introduction
Love is the mysterious force that binds people to those around them. Love can bring joy, connection, and fulfillment to one's life. Love is a complex and multifaceted emotion that has captivated humans throughout history. Love is a beautiful thing and everyone should experience it. Everyone deserves to love and be loved.
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Best qualities
My partner’s best quality is the fact that he is always ready to communicate with me. Before buying anything he asks for my opinion and I love how is so humble and calm( I’m loud enough so I need a calm man). He talks so calmly that even when he is angry at you, you can still feel the calmness in his voice. The fact that he knows when I'm sad from just my voice is everything to me.
Worst qualities
His worst qualities has to be that he gets angry over little things you don’t expect and that can make him isolate himself from you at that point. He can go mute on me for days and still come back to continue like nothing happens which makes me boil. He doesn't like anyone to win him in an argument(lol).
The quality to change is the fact that he gets angry over little things and can be too serious sometimes so you don’t even know when to play with him and if what you will say is something that can make him angry. He needs to work on his anger issues. I want to be able to win arguments(lol). He just wants to be the head, and boss, and the Odogwu attitude is what I want him to change.
The incident that made me love him was when I asked him to rent an apartment and stop staying in his uncle’s house so he could buy things for his house and know that these are his and also I would be able to visit him whenever I feel like and he took my advice and we started furnishing the house together. He would always send me pictures of whatever he wanted to buy for the house to know if I liked them.
So I love how he listens and acknowledged me with high regards.
Qualities I want to see in my partner
First of all, he must be Godly/God fearing as in someone who loves the things of God and goes to church and church programs.
He must be honest, calm like I already said, compassionate, considerate, kind, and a cheerful giver. He must be ready to compromise for the sake of our love. He must be supportive too. I know i can't get a perfect man but being 90% perfect is not too much to ask any man.
Qualities I don't want to see in my future partner
He must not be a womanizer or cheat, he has no business being an irresponsible man, and he should be able to control his anger.
He should not be authoritative. He should be able to leave third parties out of our relationship and should be ready to grow in all ramifications.
My dream life partner should be a man who genuinely loves me, and loves his family, he has to be family-oriented, he should be a cheerful giver, a responsible handsome man of Christ. He should be ambitious. He should be my partner in all areas( crimes, gossip, in bed, and others haha). He should be a man who seeks the opinion of his partner before executing plans.
Things he must do to melt my heart;
I love compliments a lot One of my love languages is words of affirmation that is why I want a man who listens so he can know what to say and when to say it.Then I love gifts. Like buying me something I’ve always wanted. He should surprise me always no matter how little. Those little things are what I keep more in my memory. I love it more when you buy it than when you give me money to go and buy it myself
I'm a baby girl and I need love and pamper. Make nobody carry stress near me.
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In Conclusion
Everyone deserves a good partner. There is nothing as good as having somone in your life that you can discuss everything with, tell each other how your day went, going for dinner dates, and doing so many crazy thijgs together. Its worth it. Find your Romeo or juliet today
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