SEC-S6W6 : "About your relationship with your loved one."

I agree with you "We all have loved ones and I have a lot to write about on this topic and my loved one. But is it possible to write about her on one page? No, so I am giving you as much as I can give you easily and you can read without getting tired.


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How do you express love and affection for each other?

Building a relationship is easy, but maintaining it is not as easy. We can make it strong or weak through our efforts. As they say, making a relationship strong or weak depends on the behavior of the partners. If you love your partner, let them know it.

That is why couples with strong relationships face life’s difficulties with a smile. A slight effort can build our relationship, or a lack of it can turn it sour.

What have you learned from your relationship? How do you handle disagreements?- A happy and strong relationship

If try our best to make the relationship strong and happy, then they become unbreakable. Strong relationships not only bring happiness in life but also keep a person safe from stress. Strong relationships are key, not only for mental peace, but for a healthy life.

How do you express love and affection for each other? I Communicate openly

We should be transparent in our communication with each other, have an open mind, and also understand the other person’s point of view. We should stay away from laptops, mobile devices, and other gadgets during conversation. By doing this, we will place our full attention on our partner, and they will like it. This will reduce misunderstandings, as we will concentrate on each other better.

I have no habit of interpreting my partner. So she believes I'm interested in what she has to say, and wants to covey her point.

Going for outings strengthen the relationship. it is also necessary to plan a trip. Going to a new place together fills the relationship with a new freshness and feeling.

What are some meaningful ways you use to connect with your partner?- Let’s eat together.
Consuming food together increases love. The ideal way is to eat three meals together at home. But is this practical? Probably not, so at least we should eat breakfast and dinner together. We can go out and spend some quality time on holidays. I also experiment as I try to cook her favorite dish once in a while and help her in cooking, that helps her stay together. I fill the dishwasher and empty it. That lessens her workload.

What do you do to keep the spark alive in your relationship?

The body’s physique does not always remain the same. In such a situation, if I find my partner a bit changed or, sometimes, a little unattractive, I ignore it but accept that change. I believe that the person with whom I am in a loving relationship may change their lifestyle, attitude, or choice. I accept them as they are. After all, I am in a permanent relationship and not a one-night stand.

We listen to each other

An easy way to make any relationship happy is to listen to each other. I make sure I am listening when she speaks. In case I am not getting her point, I try my best to understand it because, being careless, I may not get her exact point.

I never keep the past in my mind, and even if something has gone wrong between the two of us that has made me feel bad, I never keep that in mind. But I am a human, so even if I do, I try to forget it. Even if something bothers me, I openly tell her about it, and lo-and-behold, it solved the matter. It is possible that there will be a slight difference of opinion for a while, but that’s normal, isn’t it? I don’t believe in digging up old things, which I know is a surefire way to sever relationships.

Envy has no place in relationships

Jealousy has no place in relationships. If something makes me feel jealous, that means we are not in a relationship, but in business. The feeling of jealousy in our mind about something is a sign that we are on the verge of breaking up, so be careful. There are only two ways to avoid feeling jealousy. I would rather get out of such a relationship than have such feelings.

We maintain our trust in each other

To keep the relationship strong, I try my best. I never make false promises to my partner, and I try to keep any promises I make. In case I fail, then I make it a point to make it clear to her, and I know she is so understanding that she will never feel bad about it.

We respect each other

A sense of respect for each other is necessary in every relationship. Only if I respect my partner will our relationship stay strong; otherwise, it will hurt my partner and ruin our relationship. The relationship suffers when one partner degrades or feels inferior to the other. Everything in a relationship is based on mutual understanding.

We take care of everything

Taking care of each other’s desires keeps the relationship happy. For example, if my partner likes a particular flavor of ice cream, I will never say I don’t like that flavor, even if it’s not my favorite. If she wants a certain dress and I don’t like the color, I will never, ever suggest to her that I dislike it, at least not directly.


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We pamper each other

Caring for each other is also necessary for a relationship. Whenever I get a chance, I tell her how special she is for me. A sweet hug, a note on the fridge while leaving for work are also magical and keep the relationship strong.

We make all decisions with each other’s consent

No matter the decision, small or big, we take them together, which makes us feel equal and respected. By doing this, we learn about each other’s opinions, and if there is a disagreement about something, then its reason will also come to the fore. With this, both partners will make better decisions and will also take a step towards strengthening the relationship.

Gifts and surprises

Gifts and surprises can also help make the relationship happy. It is unnecessary that I give her expensive gifts. But I make sure I gift her, her favorite items, however small, a rose, a shirt, or a hug. With this, I get her sweetness back, and our love remains intact.

How do you keep communication open and honest? - Time is an important factor

This is most important for every relationship, as a lack of time can ruin even the best of relationships. No matter how busy I am, I make sure I am available for her. We go out on weekends or simply go for a walk; this helps maintain the beauty of relationship. We openly talk about each other’s weaknesses and each other’s work, and if there is a difference of opinion about something, then we discuss it clearly.

If we want to have a happy and healthy relationship, let’s freely say what’s on our minds. We should respect each other the way they are.

We find happiness in everything

We trust each other.

We share our problems

We give credit to each other.

It is very easy to make the relationship happy and strong. I have a few clear methods that help strengthen our relationship. Stronger the relations, better the life.

What are some of your favorite memories together?

I try my best to stop
the waves of memories
However, she is always
in my mind
like a rising wave
as the waves bring
her memories with her
A fragrance
in my memory.

As a rolling wave
Touches my feet
and makes me shiver
with a feeling
as I felt during college
and made me afraid.
of losing you.
fear of
breaking my dreams.

but my everlasting friend!
I will cherish
those memories
I have that rose.
still in my book.
The petals have dried.
but its fragrance
fills my nostrils
That rose is still
fresh for me.


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I smell fragrance
of your memories
whenever I open the page
of my management book
as your name on them
with your memory.

@dove11 wish you all a happy relationship!

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