Assalamu Alaikum

Hello Friends,

I am @jollymonoara from Bangladesh.

Once again, @mostofajaman organized a contest in the @steem4bangladesh community with the theme Out of Sight Out of Mind. It is a wonderful thing that through this contest we will know more details.

Humans are social creatures. They cannot be one. They have to go somewhere else to survive. In this ratio, we get involved in good relations with all relatives and neighbors. Again, many times despite having good relations, we go far away for some reason. This distance was to go but not to forget. It means that if it is hidden from the eyes, it is not hidden from the mind. And that is the main point of this contest. These are the things I described in the contest.

Out of sight, out of mind is a common saying in this world, and it is a proverb. We had to memorize this proverb in childhood but without understanding it and now I don't know the real meaning of this saying.

We say a word when someone close to us goes away, but don't forget me. If we go away, we will talk to many people, we will get many friends. Seeing that I will not be with you will forget me.

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But we say this just to remember.

Sandhya Mukherjee has a song –

**তুমি বলেছিলে
এ চোখের আড়াল
মনের আড়াল নয় **

In Sandha Mukherjee's song, the person dear to the lover is prohibited from hiding in his heart. In this song, the lover's promise is compared to love so that even if the lover is far away, will not forget her lover.

When the loved ones go away, it hurts a lot, and the heart breaks. We cross hundreds of obstacles to catch a glimpse of them. But if he dies, he will not be seen again. He disappeared behind the eyes, but he remains behind the mind.

Out of Sight Out of Mind This can be seen in all aspects of our life, especially from childhood to old age. Along the way in life, we have met many people other than our relatives. But can we remember everyone? The thing to remember is between him and me. Although many close people go away, we don't feel bad, and when people from far away come near, they want to keep him closer. What I remember is my good relationship with him, his behavior, and my mind is similar to him. This is why we can easily make friends with our school or college friends or colleagues. And those who are very close cannot be close friends.

We remember in our hearts those who inspired us in our lives and benefited us selflessly in times of need and times of need. When those people go away, our mind searches for them. People can be hidden from the eyes but this is not hidden from the mind. I could not forget the person who went away because I love him. So he could not leave my mind even from a distance. People are not permanent in this world. When someone close to us dies, if we don't see him, we feel sad and heavy. I remember him again and again because I love him.

If we keep any animal or bird, even if it is far away or dies, we remember it. The reason is that I love, like.

Whether someone is near or not, if I have a love for him, I remember him. That is why even if the eyes are hidden, the mind is not hidden.

And there are some people whom we easily forget, because of their behavior we don't even remember. Because of his behavior, we forget that we never loved him. Because of his behavior, my mind also made him forget that there was no love.

Example
My grandfather died three years ago today. Not that I loved him very much. But when he died I know why I still couldn't forget him. I have many memories with him that my mind doesn't let me forget. Some of his behavior, and some words may have been so scarred in my mind that I still remember them. I had a love for him hidden deep in my heart that I didn't know. Today I cry when I see his useable things, which is my love for him and his behavior. But he went behind my eyes but could not go behind my mind. His memory has awakened in me a memory that I will never forget

People can be hidden from the eyes but people do not come from the mind. The mind always remembers it.
So this saying is true on one side and false on the other.

I don't find people compatible with my life. We were 5 friends when we were still studying. But after the SSC exam, everyone could not study in another college. Sometimes I would go to meet someone. She was my best friend. I met my best friend again at university but the subject was different. Then we met. But suddenly she got married and went to America. Since then I missed a lot and couldn't find him. After 12 years, suddenly one day I found him on Facebook. Interest in seeing him increased.

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When we met after another two years, I thought it would have been better if we hadn't met. When it was behind the eyes, the heart wanted to see it once, but now in front of the eyes, even then the heart does not want her.
The reason may be that his behavior forced my mind to forget.

There was someone I could never see. I could not bear it. But when he died in an accident, I know why I felt very sad, felt bad. Now why can't I forget him today? It seems to have backfired. The reason may be that hatred for him has turned into love. Now I know why I remember maybe only because of sympathy.

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There is someone who hides my eyes, she couldn't hide my heart. Once she was my best friend my mother. She inspired me in my life, helped me selflessly in times of need and in times of need. She was the only one who was by my side during the birth of my two sons.

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A mother never lets her child out of sight, no matter where the child is, the mother is always busy thinking about the child. If they go somewhere, there is no peace until they return home. Today I am far away from my mother, I live in someone else's family, then she left all the work for me and came to me. Take care of me when I am sick. My mother is near me, I fill a lot of peace. So always happy or sad, my eyes find my mother.

Finally thanks to @mostofajaman bhai for such a contest. Maybe someone close to him has gone far away, so he has organized this contest to remember him if he can find him. These moments to remember the people close to him, let everyone get close to the people close to them, and never be hidden from the eyes.

I am inviting my friends to participate in this contest, they are –@moyeon,@eliany, and @abdillahw2.

May everyone be well and may we all work together on this platform.
Thank you for watching and reading my post.

Contest link

Best Regards
@jollymonoara