Hello all beloved steemian friends, I hope you are all always healthy. On this occasion I came to take part in the Week 4 Steemit engagement Challenge in the Steem For Bangladesh.
Every human being has unique events in his life including those that are terrible and will never be forgotten. This event should not be a weapon to kill enthusiasm and light in life, on the contrary, it should make us stronger and better human beings and continue to be careful. One of the terrible events that I will never forget is the time when I had an accident which made me more careful.
What was the terrible day of your life? What happened to you that day?
One terrible moment that I will never forget for the rest of my life, even to this day. At that time I was still studying in semester 4 and I was one of the students who was active in organizations. I was involved in a campus organization and at that time we were holding a humanitarian program, namely helping our brothers and sisters who were affected by the devastating earthquake and landslide in Central Aceh, Takengon.
We held deliberations on campus and at that time I was driving my brother's motorbike, the red Jupiter MX. We decided to leave this afternoon by bus. I then called my mother and asked permission because time was running out. My mother gave permission, and since this would probably last for two days, I had to go home to pick up some of my clothes.
I go home through the city street. I'm used to riding a motorcycle at high speed, but this time in a hurry I increased the speed to 100km/h. Arriving at the Blang Panyang area, from a distance I saw a middle-aged woman stopping in the middle of the road, right at the center line. Because I didn't know the direction he wanted to take, I gave a signal from a distance with my horn several times, until when I got close to him, he then accelerated his motorbike forward and a collision was inevitable.
When I was hit, I was unconscious, I don't know what happened, but the people there said, I rolled from the middle of the road to the side of the road and was almost crushed by a truckload of cement. When I realized, I was already pulled over and people took me to the puskesmas which happened to be not far from there. My parents came not long after that. My chin and the heels of my feet were covered with a crust of asphalt and I had to receive several stitches in a major hospital.
My brother's motorbike was destroyed, but I feel fine, while the mother who was hit earlier admitted her mistake that she was just learning to ride a motorbike and at that time it turned out that she was hesitant to cross. I'm not angry at the mother, it's just that I can't participate in this humanitarian action and I have to experience an accident that has never been in my memory. This is something I should be grateful for because there is always wisdom behind a test.
Have similar terrible events happened repeatedly in your life? How do you keep yourself away from it if it happens? And do you still shudder when you remember that terrible day?
No, until this was a one-off accident. I could feel how the doctor stitched my chin and heels without injecting anesthetic, how the asphalt was on my body and blood was flowing from my feet and hands. And I hope that something like this never happens to me again.
The accident also had a big impact on me. I never go faster or at least don't go over 60km/h. There's no way this doesn't leave trauma marks, that's why I'm always very careful when riding a motorbike including making sure you have holes and your hands are always on standbyhorn, and also the brakes and feet on the gear train. The helmet is also the most important unit because if I wasn't wearing a helmet at that time, maybe I could have hit my head or maybe I wouldn't have made it today. The most important thing is that I always prepare myself with everything that is traffic safety.
What lessons have you learned from that terrible event in your life and what do you want to tell others about it?
There are many lessons to be learned from the accident that happened to me a few years ago. First, Never be in a hurry to do something, do something with focus but with certainty. Second, always be alert and careful in our actions because we don't know what and how something will end. Third, never underestimate a situation even though we often do the same thing, because no time is the same and there will always be stories every day.
I want to say that, whatever we are experiencing right now or our goals are not being delivered, so don't complain and don't be angry at the situation, because we can never know what is behind the incident because it could be that what we are experiencing is better than what we are experiencing. plan. God's plan is always the best, we must keep trying and believe and be grateful that there will be something better (replace). And I get the lesson now. Alhamdulillah for everything that has happened.
Until here, my participation in the Steemit Engagement Challenge S10W4 at Steem For BangladeshCommunity.
I would like to invite my friends to participate in this Steemit Engagement Challenge, @ridwant @astilem @goodybest
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