Have you ever lost something that meant the world to you? It can be devastating, heartbreaking, and sometimes even life-changing. In this post, I want to share with my dear steem users my personal story of losing a precious thing. It was a difficult experience, but it taught me valuable lessons about life, love, and letting go. So sit back, grab a warm cup of tea, and join me on this journey of loss, grief, and ultimately, healing.

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MY PERSONAL INTRODUCTION:

My name is Syeda Mahnoor and I am a Muslim. My family is very strict and when I was six years old, my father kicked my mother out of the house and divorced her. This caused a lot of pain and struggle for us as it took away our father's support and our sense of identity. We were left alone without any guidance. Our grandparents took us in but there were many dark moments that still linger within us.

HOW U LOSE A PRECIOUS THING OF MY LIFE :

"I want to share my painful and precious experience with you. It's something I lost and regret deeply, but now there's nothing I can do. This is about my childhood and youth, which I lost because of my family's pressure and my own poor decision-making. When I was at my grandfather's house, I heard the news of my father's sickness. I decided to go to my father's house and take care of him. I asked my mother to reunite with my father for his sake, and she agreed. We became a happy family, but unfortunately, my father passed away when I was 16. I became completely alone, and my mother was very worried about me. She thought no other family would accept me without my father. She was afraid I would be rejected by society, and she became sick herself. One day, she forced me to marry a 32-year-old man when I was only 16. I had no knowledge of marriage, but I went along with it out of respect for my mother's wishes. However, that one decision destroyed my life. After the marriage, I gave birth to a son.

but the stress and cruelty of my husband left me with nothing. I lost everything: my childhood, my smile, my beauty, my college life, and my health. Now, I'm just trying to survive for my baby. I want to be self-independent, but I think that dream will remain just that: a dream. I'm sharing this story with you because I want to show you the other side of the coin. Many parents sacrifice their children due to societal pressure and worldly desires."

So the lesson is this plz don't sacrifice your daughters for any kind of societal pressure u even cant imagine how painfull they react on your daughters life

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