Contest: Happy Married Life Vs Happy Single Life

Assalamualaikum, how are you all? I hope everyone is well by the grace of Allah. I am also healthy in this summer by the grace of Allah. Thanks to your prayers. Alhamdulillah. Today I am here to share with you about the biggest change in my life. This is one such topic. Through which I will tell you the story of my life change. I hopeYou will read carefully. But let's start. And yes, before starting, my best wishes and congratulations to @ripon0630 bro. To organize such a contest through which I got a chance to share some of my moments with you.☺️ Let's not wait anymore. Let's start now, 🗣️🗣️🗣️

★★ Happy married life or happy single life? Which do you think is the happiest?

I think:
Happiness and sadness are complementary to each other. Happiness without sadness is worthless. Happiness is valued because of sadness. Everyone knows these spiritual things but no one wants to accept them.
Let me tell you about me now. I am not happy in married life but in single life. Let me share.

*married life

If you get a like-minded person next to you. Who will always take care of you. Will try to understand you. What you want. Which will be understood without telling him. If you get such a man by your side, then you are happy in married life. Yes, you are right. I married just such a man for love. Only meLove. I married him and understood what freedom is? How to live in the midst of hardships. Having him, I have understood the meaning of life. He is my human peace.

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*lonely life

My life before marriage was very difficult. I lived alone for 14 years. I stayed alone with my father since class eight. I had to spend a lot of time alone because there was no mother. Even if I was in trouble, I did not have anything to say to anyone. What I now know is my husband. I can say it easily. However, it is very restricted due to not having a motherLife had to pass. You had no brothers and sisters. All in all, the color of life was tarnished. Such a day was passing, suddenly someone came to brighten my manil color. Who loved me knowing everything about my family. I also dreamed of living anew by meeting him. And the man of that dream is my husband today.

★★ Which of these two lives are you living now? Are you happy with your current life?

Two times in the life of every person face two kinds of experiences. However, some of these experiences are too much. Others are less. I have been subjected to many situations in my life. From my childhood, my elders have told me that I will not suffer, I will be much better after your marriage. Our prayers are always with you. I will be. I am very well today Alhamdulillah. Today I am in married life.

Alhamdulillah I am very happy in my present life. I got a family now. Where I got a mother like a mother. I got a mother like a sister. I got shelter under the umbrella of a new father. And I got a husband like a best friend. Alhamdulillah.

Yes I am 99.99% happy in married life.😍😍

★★ What do you think others are missing out on?

For me the color of life is one. For others the color of life is different. Some have happy childhood. Someone's sad. Married life is happy for some and miserable for others. I think it is impossible for anyone to give a one-sided answer here. However, after childhood, every person has to enter married life. So in this life, sacrifice something, accept something. I think marriage makes people happy for life. So I think others are missing married life. That's one aspect.

Some memories of childhood remind every person of old memories. They miss the unsatisfied desires of childhood now.

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★★ What things do you do to find happiness in your current life?

think that happiness is in yourself now. Being happy together with everyone means happiness. I am no longer alone in my current life. Now I have a beautiful small family with everyone in my in-laws' house. Now being together with all of them is happiness. Husband Happy to be able to cook his favorite food and feed him. Father-in-law.After making a cup of tea for father, when the wife says with a smile that the tea is good. Happiness lies in him. Being able to close my eyes at Humayun Ahmed Sir's book with the fatigue of the whole day is happiness now. And I am always busy between walking on the streets called foxes late at night with Husband, and holding his hand tightly in fear.
All I can say is,
To find happiness now, you have to be generous. The more generous you are in your family life, the happier you are.

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★★ Conclusion

Here I have shared some things about my life. For me there is a lot of difference between married life and single life. I am better now than before Alhamdulillah. His life experience is different for each person. I have shared some of my experiences and hardships with you. I hope you will take it positively. And will be with meInshallah Let me know how you like my story. i am waithing for your nice comment.