Deal with the human malice with vigor. There are people out there who are evil, malicious, liars, envious, selfish and ignorants ...
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You will meet these people in your life. And you will be called through this "meeting" to survive but above all to make good use of the great lesson of life you will get.
While you are growing up and you think you have seen everything (or almost), life will come to deny you by sending you experiences and lessons that will be the basic raw material of your emotional maturity.
Each of us has experienced in different ways and with varying forms of jealousy, malice and wickedness. And maybe you try to find the reasons, why an unreasonable stab in the back, while simultaneously striving to heal your wounds.
Who are really these people?
- Those who do not respect the peculiarities and limits of each person, violating them continuously.
- those who do not respect you, your family and people in your life.
- All those who have repeatedly shown that they are not happy with your joy, and can not feel sorrow with your sorrow.
- People without moral barriers and boundaries.
-All those who would sacrifice values, ideas, relationships, people simply to achieve their purpose. - Those who constantly gossip you and your life on the wrong people.
- Those who judge, criticize and undermine others for everything.
- Those who abuse you verbally, emotionally or physically.
- The exploiters.
- The liars.
-And all those people who interact with you and make you sick, causing you even psychosomatic problems.
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How to deal with human evil by starting to protect yourself!
Remember that you and yourself control the reaction that you will have against the evil and the malice of the people.You may not be able to control many of the conditions and many of the events that happen in your life,but with exercise you can learn how to react to the negative pre-calls of people ...
Neither the warm-blooded reaction under steam nor the stoic patient and passive attitude will lead you to redemption from these people.
When someone is constantly malicious towards you ,Before you attack, let yourself feel what's going on. Take deep breaths. Think you will soon get over it. Very often, we do not want to admit that the human malice of a particular person has hurt us. To get rid of the pain you must first have experienced it. Do not forget that it's perfectly normal to feel betrayed, angry, disappointed.
The most effective way to deal with human vice is DISTANCE, especially if you have tried all approaches.After DISTANCE, try to feel COMPASSION (because you should not forget that behind such a troubled people there is a lot of malice and great pain), And finally LIBERATE and throw away the smallness of people and do not let it touch you.
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How to deal with evil, but also the man from whom it arises.
Try if you can get them out of your life. If this is not possible, then keep contacts and discussions between you on a formal level.
Reconcile with the true face of evil
After you have passed the first stage of awareness and pain, face and reconcile to the idea that YES! There is a lot of evil out there, and that is also part of this life. Look behind their face(Behind the evil events are people "small", wounded, scared, sick-eyed, and sad).
Do you have illusory expectations that one day this person will do what you expect? You probably do it as I've noticed in most people. You Believe, hope, wish for the person to change and at sometime will understand the scale of unethical behavior. To get rid of great expectations that will never be confirmed, is literally the greatest release.
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Do not try repeatedly to explain your own perspective and improve things!
If you have already tried, stop. Just like that. A person who does not want to understand will never understand.
Do not try to find the reason of malice
Do not get into this process. People who have a different moral value system than you, have different outlets that propel them into specific behaviors.
Seek and turn to the clasp of all those who love you.
Find the people of your life ... Love (fortunately) beats. And not just in fairy tales.
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