Life is complex. Relationships are complex. But sometimes answers are simple. One of my childhood heroes had the solution for us to live a balanced life, to not disturb the equilibrium that exists in nature and how to allow that equilibrium to enter your soul and body. Bruce Lee was a great inspiration to me, let him inspire you to and allow yourself to be amazed at what balance in body and soul can achieve:
I hope you watched the entire one-and-a-half minute: it'll benefit you the rest of your life! :-)