'HOW A CARELESS TEENAGER TURNED INTO A (STEPH)MOM'
(life of a girl who survived domestic violence and stalking, fighting for a better life)
Welcome to the SECOND day I'm participating in the #monthlyauthorchallenge!
I'm really excited to join the challenge! Why? Because I would love to share some bits of my life with you.
I think it might surprise you and even shock you 😉
DAY 2 The first guy I'll KISS will be the guy I'll MARRY!
Yesterday I told you about me being a wife and a proud (steph)mom of 4 kids and just loving my life.
But it wasn't always like that..
I grew up in a loving family with my mom, my dad and my two brothers. I didn't have anything to worry about as a kid. I went to school, had a lot of friends, and in elementary school several boyfriends asked me to merry them, so I had a great perspective for the future 😉
When I was a teenager I had a great time in highschool. I did what I had to do to get the grades I needed to pass. Nothing more, nothing less.. I loved hanging out with my friends and oh did I have crushes on BOYS! 😍 (My mom even told me that she couldn't invite couples at our home, when I was a little girl, without me being all over the guy 😁 Haha BAD Betty!)
But dating boys was a step too far. I didn't just want to date a guy because I thought he was cute and because he thougth the same about me, and then get on to the next guy, and the guy after that...
I wanted to date THE ONE!
So I made this agreement with myself:
THE FIRST GUY I'll KISS WILL BE THE GUY I'll MARRY. 😘👫❤
Great intention, right?
I was tempted a couple of times. Got loveletters, napkins with odours of guys on it, tapes with lovesongs (this was really bad. There was a choir on it singing imitations of popsongs like Cher in a very awful way. This guy never stood a change), got an invitation to a houseparty (from a guy who had a girlfriend but said he would dump her if I was interested in him. Dude!), and even a necklet... but everytime it just didn't seem like marriage material
Then, when I was 16 years old, I met this guy in church. I thought was very interesting.. He was 4 years older then me. Everytime he sat next to me in church he laid a little flower on my leg. He made me feel beautiful. He was different, funny, straight to the point, creative, charming , and very good looking.
First I was sceptic, but I was madly in love after THE FIRST KISS 😘
COULD THIS BE THE ONE?! 💘
Tomorrow I'll tell you what else we did besides kissing.. 😉
Stay tuned!
-Thank you for your interest! I would love to hear something from you! Please leave a comment and I'll get back to you 😊 Hope to see you back tomorrow! Love you 😘!-
