前段时间一部国产时装剧《恋爱先生》，打发了我一些饭后的时光。
不讨论这部剧是否营养或者江疏影的演技是烂还是怎样，演员的着装是得体的，男女皆赢。
男一陈，肯定不是一个坏人角色，坏人当不了男一号。可是越往后看，越能发现这个人的性格缺陷，自尊心导致的自卑，就是剧中所谓的——鸵鸟性格，遇到感情先铺垫了一大堆，到了节骨眼却羞于表达，在女生已经默许接纳的情况下，还退缩。没有勇气，而浪费了一段缘，折磨了两个女生。
所以，联想到多年前很喜爱的一首歌，from Jewel的《satisfied》:
Cuz the only real pain
Heart can never know
Is the sorrow or regret
When you don’t let your feeling show
So did you say it
Did you mean it
Did you lay it on the line
Did you make it count
Did you look them in the eyes
Did they feel it
Did you say it in time
Did you say it out loud
Cuz if you did then you’ve lived some and that feeling inside
That’s called satisfied
缺乏勇气的爱慕，可以认定为耍无赖，面对这种人，大可以选择无视。
所以，“别拿暗恋当饭吃”，真的一点都不伟大。
My third favorite song is “Satisfied” by Jewel. I am so in love with this Music Challenge. It gives me a chance to share my passion to music. This is my entry for "Music Challenge - 7 Favorite Songs" by @kona. In this challenge, you have to share your 7 favorite songs.
And I would be love to nominate @tumutanzi to join the contest!