In our search for validity in life we often drown the genius of our minds for other people's opinion and thoughts or even perception of us. Initially we might desire to get people's opinion on matters and as we let their opinions determine our decisions and actions we often make one of the greatest mistakes of our life - we exchange our beautiful but almost salient minds for peoples opinion. We fail to realise that our mind is one of the greatest wonders of the world and that people's opinion is nothing but about themselves. The mind is an encyclopaedia of knowledge and feelings in its own right.
While getting other people's opinion isn't a bad thing in itself, constant use of this method to make decisions often tends to drown the thoughts of our mind. The mind like any other muscle that can only improve once it is being used to. The mind is our partner in this life and the life beyond.Therefore we must learn to bring it on board with all our questions and worries and we might be amazed at the solutions it gives us in addition to the companionship it graces us with only then would we have discovered a partner for life