Nice guys finish last
I've seen far too many examples of girls complaining about their boyfriends or husbands treating them bad, only to return to his side as if she's under some kind of magical curse. What happened to the "I want a guy that treats me well"? How is it that a girl who ushers such a statement can then end up with a "bad guy"?
Meanwhile, "Nice guys" are on the sideline wondering what they've done wrong, objecting to the woman's choice of the "bad man" yet secretly harbouring admiration for the "bad guy".
What exactly is going on?
 First and foremost, being too nice can actually be an emotional burden. Women often wonder how a guy can be so nice, but the reality is, the nice guy is probably spending too much time trying to be nice and has forgotten to just, be himself - a man. Meanwhile, the "bad guy" isn't trying to be anyone but himself, he'll say what he wants and care not for what you or others think. He's being real guy. |
"Sure, it's not a problem at all, i'd love to"Nice guys will never ask for anything, nor reject anything you ask him to do. That is a real problem. It's not that women don't appreciate the good gestures, it's more that they are too easy to come by. A woman doesn't like a man who she can easily trample on, and that's why the "bad guy" will never grant whatever is asked for just like that. |
You sir, are too predictableWatching movies is fine, but unless the girl is also a massive movie fanatic, it can grow tiresome and frankly boring. And that's the key here, nice guys don't go against the grain, they are predictable and choose safe activities. Where's the fun in that? Women like their own fair share of stimulating activities too, they are fun. The bad guy doesn't play by the book, and that's what makes him unpredictable. |
What matters in the end..
Nice guys by definition are already finishing first in something. Whether or not the girl see's it that way is another thing. Sure, the nice guy may miss out on that hot girl who ends up dating the douchebag, but there's a reason for that. People like to be with those they consider their equals, in some girls cases, even a little above. An example would be a celebrity who dates another celebrity. And that is why the most important thing is finding someone you have a lot in common with. That way, you'll never finish last because in their eyes, you're always first! That's what matters in the end..
One last thing. Be. A. Man.
我看过无数次女生抱怨男生对她们不好 可是到最后还是回到他身边。女生常说 “我要一个对我好的男人” ？ 那为什么最后还是跟坏男人在一起？
我们看看女生到底在想什么。首先，对一个女孩太好会让她感觉到情绪上的负担。女人觉得这么好的男人是不可能存在的，这样想也没大错，因为好男人确实花太多时间在当好男人上，但忽略了重点就是要做自己。而坏男人只关心做自己，他谁也不想当。爱说什么就说什么，不会在乎别人对他的质疑。好男人永远不会拒绝一个女生，也不会要求什么。 这问题可大。 女人当然不会介意男生对她好，但女人也不喜欢男生太容易被踩踏或掌控。而坏男人就不会对女人有求必应。看电影是好的事情，但是每次约会不能总看电影吧？ 好的男人不会要求冒险活动，也是为什么女人会很快就对他没兴趣。 如果一个男人太容易被预知猜测，女人就会越来越少新鲜感。人也喜欢跟同类同等级的人在一起，我们看娱乐圈的人都是跟内圈的人在一起 也是因为他们有共同点。最重要的就是，找一个人跟你有很多共同点，同时喜欢你这种爱看电影的人，就不会出问题。最后就是，散发出你自己的雄性魔力，其实坏男人只不过比较man而已，不会怕做自己。