As human beings, we are faced with many life challenges. We deal with some and some are beyond our control. We have read, seen cases of forceful 'mating' by men on women. You wonder what kind of 'evil' could prompt a forceful penetration of an innocent lady. Is this act learnt from friends or they are just normal way of doing things that ladies have to cope with? What about similar cases on man? Oops! You are wondering if men are raped too?
Without leaving the crux of this piece, lets look at the idea of rape and what it involves.
Rape! what is rape? To my own understanding it is an act of forceful penetration. Rape is a cognizant procedure of terrorizing wherein culprits keep women and girls particularly, in a condition of steady dread. Rape depreciates the casualty. It is a crime which derides the feelings, a crime of affront, persecution and reprisal that should be rebuffed on the grounds that an attacker is a criminal and all violations and their recipients must be rebuffed.
Rape and different types of lewd behavior require the pressing and genuine consideration of family, foundations, common society gatherings, government and the universal group in the event that we truly need to guarantee a brutality free society for all.
It is a seriously an awful ordeal that disproportionally influences women. However there is restricted data regarding the matter in our condition.
Boys, girls , men, women, all face this circumstance, not simply just female gender, possibly the male sexual orientations don't turn out to state they are assaulted in light of the fact that individuals will judge/question their prowess.
quoteWe must send a message across the word that there is no disgrace in being a survivor of rape. The shame is on the aggressor by Angelina Jolie
Most victims hardly come out to tell individuals what they experienced, Some guardians barely set aside a few minutes in having a personal discussion with their kids, Most African guardians/parents shy away from this duty, if we don't interact with our kids they won't confide in you. That brings my question : when is the appropriate time to talk about sex related theme with your children? Shying away from this can imperil their lives.
To what extent will this continue in our society? People tend to accuse the victim, they ask you questions like for what good reason did you visit him? Why did you go such a forlorn place alone? They continue asking why yet enable the assailant to walk freely? Affirm that aside, now let me ask, a 6months old do you need to scrutinize her? If we can't bring the evil perpetuators to Justice who knows what they will do next? The fault shouldn't be on the casualty, recall that she is the victim here. This needs to stop as it makes me extremely upset to see a video of a six months old baby being assaulted by a man who is mature enough to be her dad.
Oh! I weep cos it brings back memories. Sorry I am this enthusiastic, the flashback continues coming as I keep seeing more victims .
Thanks for reading