Have you ever noticed if we have a failure in life, a set back in life, difficult phase in life then we always say this "Oh it is meant to be in my DESTINY what can be done. When things do not go right it is always the Destiny or God who is messing around with our life. But at the same time when things go perfectly well, we make statements like; It is my Hard work, Will-Power, Determination that got me here. So funny right?

DESTINY The so called Easy target for all our actions.

Well I do not say that I do not believe in Destiny. I believe some major life events are as per our Destiny where as there are many things that happen in Life with our FREE WILL also. I do believe in Astrology to an extent but no one can ever predict anything 100%, when the astrologer reads a chart there can be positive or negative manifestations of the same planetary positions so nothing is written in Black and White.

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I Shape up my Reality

Few years ago if I had to answer this question then I would have cried my heart out here complaining about how life has been unfair with me and that my Destiny is so bad; God is so bad with me and I would have done all the blame game.
But today I have a different view of life and I completely believe in Myself and know that it is only ME who can shape up my life with my own thoughts and actions.

Yes a lot of my life part is also a plan of my Destiny or rather I would say my Karma. The Family I am born into because I have no choice here, My Childhood days which is more or less controlled by my Karma through my Parents, My Child again where I do not decide which Child will come in my Life, Or my Death time which no one would know and like wise the major events of life which are just meant to happen, like a marriage.

But then for everything we claim to be a destiny is unfair. Some years ago when I was in India, I always wanted to go out of India for a few years and live and we were trying hard but nothing was working out. In desperation I was consulting astrologers to check if I have a chance to go. Every single one refused saying it is not in my chart. Somewhere I was not able to accept and I use to keep on manifesting it all the time and finally 4 years back we got an opportunity. Likewise many other instances where it has seemed impossible but with efforts it has shaped up. So I believe that we have the ability to shape up our life the way we want. Today exactly I have all that I wanted and I am still working for my future goals also which I am sure I will achieve it.

When you do a Tarot or an Angel Reading; I always tell people, that the answer is completely received based on your energy field that is at that point of time. All that we are manifesting Good or Bad with our actions is all in our Energy Field which is shaping up our reality. The house we live in, the jobs we work at. the people we deal with are all part of our own manifestation which is least in our consciousness so we do not know from where it is originating. But subconsciously it is originating from within us itself.
The Etheric field around us is a reflection of our own actions, thoughts, lifestyle and this Etheric field of our own self, of our house is then shaping up the Reality of our future based on what it has been stored with.

When we bring Destiny in every area of life then we are just finding an excuse for our own failures which we do not want to own up; because we have learnt that all bad happens because of GOD and Destiny and all Good happens because of our hard work.

Nothing is happening by chance; we shape up our own reality with our own actions. So for me it is entirely ME who is responsible for shaping up my own life.

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