Such a happy feeling I have, I finally met my mom after a very long gap of more than a year. Normally we do meet once in 3 to 4 months but this last whole year there was something or the other coming up and we were just not able to meet. She lives in a different city with my sister and has now come to Muscat to spend time with me. She will be here for more than a month so I will get to spend good enough time with her.
My Mom is a very simple person, sometimes I get amazed by her simplicity, she never has any demands, no attachments for things. I have to keep asking her 100s of times Mom do you need anything and her answer will always be No. I wonder where does so much of contentment comes to her from. At times I have to literally force things on her. She has been a School teacher for all her life and still continue teaching my nephew.
Our parents are the most important part of our life. In my case due to certain conditions I never got to spend time with my parents in my childhood. I was away from them for my entire childhood. It was never a family for us. We were all in different directions. My Parents had separated when I was 5 so for me I never had a normal childhood nor do I have any good memories of my parents from my Childhood. In my growing up I had a lot of health issues and those were the only times when my Mom was with me. I never understood her till I was in my 20s and blamed her for a lot of things that did not go right for me, but with time I did understand her side of story and then the bond between us started developing slowly.
And with time I am done with all those hard feelings, I feel that she too had her own reasons for moving out of the house in those days. In my childhood days I was more attached to my father then my mother. But after my father passed away somewhere I was feeling now she is the only one I have and I should not regret later for not spending quality time with my mother and having hard feelings for her. Initially there were lot of walls around me but over a period of time I have been able to break through them and nurture our relation. Moreover her simplicity, humbleness, soft nature made me realize that she was not the type of person to retaliate so things must be really very much messed up for her to take such a big decision of moving out of the house and away from us.
All said and done in this time our relation is pleasant and full of Love. I am looking forward to spending good quality time with her in this 1 month. A lot of people say I am a reflection of my mother and I like to hear that. 💖💖
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