Before I get into this post too deep, I wish to express my sincere thanks to All of you for your prayers and encouraging words of comfort, clarity and inner peace in the writing of this series. It is manifesting beautifully! I was able last night to relive this entire episode of my life without fear or anxiety. I even managed to stop the spinning of the Kaleidoscope. Instead of my dad comforting me, I was able to go in as an adult and rescue that child and hold her and comfort her. As I am writing this, I am feeling a clarity and sense of well-being that gets stronger by the moment.
Matthew 18:20 - "For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them."
My only struggle in today's post was how to word this and my next post in a way that would cater to the younger audience who need to relive this with me for their own healing of the Inner Child. The sooner we can help these youth, the sooner they can learn to heal themselves, the quicker their lives will change for the better.
Reliving this incident is one reason I think I probably was sexually abused and the Kaleidoscope nightmares stemmed from blacking out and just kept repeating itself as another repressed memory.
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Imagine, if you can, being tossed into a giant Kaleidoscope at the age of 4 years old and seeing someone you know pushing a red button that makes the wheels turn faster. Every time the button is pushed, you get tossed around inside the the whirling colors. Then it stops for a few seconds and the button gets pushed again and again until you feel like you are going to die if you don't get out of there.
If you haven't read my previous two post in this series, I suggest you read them now, then come back to:
Inside The Kaleidoscope
Growing up in a family of 8 kids and being the 3rd to the youngest, 6 girls and 2 boys, wasn't easy. Us girls were squeezed into two regular sized beds in a small bedroom. The two boys slept in two separate beds in the back part of the house. My daddy built a thin wall between their two spaces. I never understood why they got their own rooms and the four of us youngest girls all had to sleep in the same bed. I was back and forth between being squeezed between two of my sisters and crawling down to the foot of the bed just so I could stretch out. This never lasted long because I kept getting feet stuck in my face. Sometimes I managed to sneak in bed with my older sisters while they were sleeping. A few times I tried throwing a blanket on the floor "if I could steal one from my sisters," and trying to sleep on the floor. That didn't work either as there would be mice running around looking for food as soon as the lights went out. Most times as soon as I would get to sleep, the nightmares would come and I'd be wide awake again. I use to sleep walk a lot, so I'd never knew who's bed I would wake up in.
One particular night when I was only around 4, I remember getting up to go to the bathroom. Next thing I knew, I woke up in my oldest brother's bed. He had a hold of my hand and had placed it on his private area. The last thing I remember was him grabbing my head and pulling me down to the same area. That's when it happened, I was suddenly inside what looked like the Kaleidoscope that Daddy had bought us girls from the mercantile store in town. Only this was a giant one. All of a sudden, I saw my brother pushing a big red button which caused the Kaleidoscope to start turning inside. At first it started slow but every time he would push the button, the spinning would get faster. It would stop for a few seconds, then just keep starting up again. I would try to scream but was unable to make a sound. I was getting dizzy and sick at my stomach from all the flashing colors and being tossed around. Finally it stopped long enough for me to scream for my Daddy to "Please make it stop!!" Next thing I knew, Daddy would be picking me up and trying to calm me down as he always did after a night mare. I heard my brother tell Daddy that I had crawled in his bed while sleep walking and was having a nightmare.
Okay, wait, now let's rewind this. Are you ready to take this healing journey with me? Okay first, let's go back to the Kaleidoscope.
Now, look closely at the spinning of all the beautiful designs and colors. Pretty cool huh? Now see yourself as a child inside this giant beautiful swirl. Okay, good. Now see someone pushing a button to speed it up..getting dizzy yet?
Wait, there is a "kill Switch!" It is up to you, the adult, to push that red button and rescue that child!! Push it now.
Great you stopped it. Now look inside and see that scared child huddled in the corner crying.
Reach your arms out and gently summon her to walk towards you...Yes, here she comes!!
Now take that scared little girl in your arms and let her know how loved she is. Let her know that you are her protector and that she is now safe and secure. Let her know that she can and will get past this and grow up to be a happy, healthy young lady. Let her know that she has a bright future and will go on to help many others in her lifetime.
May your life be blessed with with Rainbows and Butterflies!!
Take responsibility for yourself and your own healing process.
Next Post: Under the Tree House
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