Alright, friend! Appreciate you joining me today for another video hosted on the amazing video platform, @dtube. I'm Ken @kenmelendez for those who don't know, and I release videos like this frequently so please feel free to subscribe to the channel.
I shot this message at a local car wash / vacuum service because my car was getting dirty on the inside and needed to be cleaned. The family and I are headed to Michigan to stay in a cottage by the lake on labor day weekend, then from there I am driving straight through to Toronto for the Steem Creators Conference. Between the two events it will be a lot of driving but definitely worth the time and miles.
The topic for today's message has been on my mind lately. What I'd like to discuss is the notion of getting clear on what you want, and then allowing the how to come later. This is going to help you if you are racking your brain trying to figure out how to attain or accomplish a specific end goal in your life.
Attempting to figure out how to reach a certain goal, before becoming clear on what you want, will cause mass amounts of pain, headache, and frustration. Trust me, I've been there. It wasn't until I started focusing on a crystal clear vision of what it is that I wanted that I began seeing it manifest in my life.
I know this works because everything I've wanted in life, I now have. I got crystal clear on the woman I wanted to marry and start a family with. I wrote down in a journal the exact type of girl I wanted and how I wanted her to be like me so that we would share similar interests and live our marriage free of fighting or tension of any kind. I now have her as well as the family I always wanted.
Since the age of 18 I've been into physical fitness because I wanted to change my body after going through a stage of depression and confusion. I now have a healthy, fit body that continues to work well for me each day my feet hit the ground. I have the energy and vitality that I need in order to do what I do whether that be at work, at home, or online.
For years I have envisioned my dream sports car, as some of you know, and it is a white Lamborghini Aventador. I want it because I am going to prove to myself that I have the ability and the skills neccessary to attract a vehicle like that into my life. It isn't about looking cool or attaining some sort of societal status, but it's to prove to myself what I am really capable of achieving.
I don't spend time focusing on how I am going to end up purchasing the new car. Instead, I understand that I desire it, and I envision myself driving it while smelling the leather interior and hearing the roaring sound of the engine. I believe I will have it because I can literally SEE and FEEL myself inside of it.
Of course, there are many things that I want in life, that are part of my vision, that are not material things such as deep relationships and adventurous experiences with my family and friends. I was simply using the Lamborghini as an example of something tangible.
I share my past history and also current desires with you to help you understand the power of wanting. The idea of getting specific and clear on what you want, then letting the how come later. When you decide that you want something, then your brain will start working in the background on ways that you can attract that desire into your life.
You will begin to notice certain situations and also connections you make with other people will start to appear in your every day life. For me, when I tell others some of the things I want in my future, they sometimes bring up something similar to "do you know how much that will cost?". I don't think that way at all. I believe in abundance and start by focusing on what I want, because I believe that the rest will work itself out.
Yes, there will be action involved in addition to thinking about what you want. But, don't stress yourself out by trying to figure it all out. Instead, get crystal clear and specific on what you want, and before you know it, you will find yourself moving closer and closer to your end goal each day.
Hope this message inspired you my friend! Stop stressing and start trusting the process. I believe in you and I know you are meant for great things. Have an amazing rest of your day :)
-Ken
P.S. Tell me something that you want to see manifest in your future :)
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