I messaged Z enthusiastically on my way to Jakarta that I could see a moonlight. Moving train and a moonlight- “ what a perfect combo!” she replied. I tilted my head slightly left to see clearly from the train window. It was beautiful indeed. Then, I was reminded of days when I traveled with a companion, someone I used to call a friend. Lately, my idea about friendship is muddled. I tell tale to everyone with open arms and just refer them around as a friend. You know, I didn’t feel it was the right thing to say and do.

Do we have to be mutually calling each other “ a friend” in order to have a “ friendship”?

picture courtesy @katlovessteve

Then, one relaxed night, I put my walls down and spilled just a drop of my secrets to someone whom I don’t know how to refer. We refer each other with this affectionate word,even perhaps we’re only a summer fling. It would have been odd, if I call G’s " a friend" or by his name- just because.

“ What is a friend?” I asked G while sinking back inside the blanket.

“ Mmh, well here let me tell you, So a friend is someone who will call you in jail, a good friend will try to bail you, but a best friend will sit next to you in jail” explained him thoughtfully while putting off his watch and ready for bed.

“you are a funny one” I commented. Well, G had this funny thoughtful stories he kept telling whenever there is a chance. I learned a lot from G’s stories but my brain hardly stored them all.

And so, I was baffled just about yesterday when suddenly, someone who used to be very close to me; my partner in crime and the one who know all of my dirts, messaged me again. I tried to know how she was doing but she was aloof. We have been lost in touch for about a year and our distance is getting wider. We barely converse with each other even our eyes met. I wrote to her in couple of occasions, she always had an excuse. So, what should I referred her? Past friend? Is there such thing?

Throughout the year, I have met a lot of people who taught me all sorts of useful things. I have always thought that people come into my life with a reason,even it’s just temporarily. Gosh!- I did not even remember when was the last time I form a friendship longer than two years. Perhaps it never happened. I move quite often in my life, from one environment to another, from one social ladder to another; up and down, I tried it all. People change so often that it muddled my definition of friendship. So, to make the whole thing easier, everyone I talk to is a friend.

I am very much grateful of relationship I have made especially with the people I recently know, meet or converse with. However slowly, I know and learn what the difference between a friend, a good friend and a best friend. I will keep learning and getting to know more- I am still this young, I have yet to taste how rough the real world is.
I heard some referred me as twenty lost something; and that’s okay,for it is a fact.

I was tagged by @mrprofessor to:
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I would like to tag my friends @wanderlass @nomadicsoul @joannewong

whom I believe would write some beautiful texts - please don't feel obligated, but you've been tagged!