Every year, thousands of children get put into the care of local authorities and the majority of them end up in foster care. When I was working as a Juvenile Detention Officer, I saw first hand how this affects children both physically, emotionally and Psychologically. The purpose of this post is an attempt to help you become stronger and more determined to do every thing in your power to help the families in this community and across the world save their children from the horrors of CPS.
Facts
• There are an estimated 400,000 kids in foster, some waiting to be adopted. Some will be returned to their parents and other will age out or run away.
• Foster kids can suffer from PTSD at almost two times the rate of veterans returning from war. PTSD can resemble other mental illnesses. Some of it’s symptoms include nightmares, flashbacks, fight-or-flee responses, anger outbursts, and hyper-vigilance.
• The average age of a foster child is 9 years old and most have been so traumatized that it carries on into their adult lives
• Almost half of all foster kids are in non-relative foster homes, 8% in institutions, 6% in group homes, and 4% are in pre-adoptive homes.
• A lot of foster children have experienced multiple placements, some as many as eight or more. They lose both adult and other kids that they have bonded with and are moved from on school to another.
• The average foster child remains is in the system for around two years before they are reunited with their biological parents, adopted, aging out, or other outcomes. 8% of these children remain in foster care for over five years.
• One-quarter of former foster kids end up homeless within four years of getting out of the system.
• Children that have been in foster homes and either adopted, returned to parents, or aged out) are most likely to suffer serious mental health issues and are four-five times more likely to be hospitalized for attempted suicide and five-eight times more likely have serious psychiatric disorders in their teen years
• Half of all foster care children do not graduate from high school. Only 3 percent graduate from college.
• Most states do not provide job training, counseling or any type of support for foster care kids after they turn 18.
• Children in foster care are 12 times more likely to be prescribed psychotropic drugs than children who are allowed to stay with family members.
WHAT IS IT LIKE TO BE PLACED IN FOSTER CARE?
VEDA’S Read her full Story here
At a very young age, about six months old, Veda was removed from her parents care and placed in the foster care system. It took months for her caseworker to get in contact with hr maternal grandmother. By the age of two, her grandmother was able to gain full custody of hr. She was in kinship care until the age of eighteen, after losing her grandmother due to a disease called multiple sclerosis, commonly referred to as MS. Throughout high school, she endured many hardships with her identity and belonging, her grandmother's’ illness, and her sexuality. Shehad troubles with her identity because shedidn’t know where she belonged or what group at school she was to associate myself with. She struggled due to her ethnicity. She is multi-racial: Mexican, Puerto Rican, and African-American. Hispanic individuals would tell her she was not Hispanic because she did not speak Spanish, or sh was accused of only being a race when it benefited her even though she identified as multiracial. “Growing up, and even now, society labels individuals and if a person may not fit in, they are often left to feel outcasted.”
ISAIAH – Read his full story here
Isaiah was the oldest of five and grew up with a single mother. Because of this, he took on many responsibilities to help his mother support my siblings. Some would have said he played a parent role by ensuring his siblings did their chores and homework, as well as making them food. He entered foster care due to issues in the home - it was no longer safe for him and my siblings to continue to live with their mother. It was tough being separated from his family because he took care of them for so long and made sure their needs were met. Because of this, though, he forgot to pay attention to myself.
“I lost a lot of friends and got my fair share of being made fun of, rejected by others and feeling unwanted. I became scared with the idea of being gay.” “Of the five foster children and three biological children in the foster home, I was the only one to be singled out and treated differently.”
JAMES – Read his full story here
James was put in the foster care system when he was only 1 year old. For the next 18 years, he was in and out of abusive homes. In one home his foster father saw him hanging out with a black friend, he beat James, drug him outside, clasped a dog collar around his neck, and cuffed his hand to a Confederate flag rail in front of the doghouse. His foster father left him outside overnight in the cold of December with no clothes. The next morning, he said, "If I see you hanging with that [N-word] again, you will be out here for a week."
Melissa was placed in foster care when she was 2. She was in and out of homes, back and forth between new placements and her biological family for Over years, (which she believes should not have been afforded so many chances with her).
"I spent five years with a lady who blew the monthly stipend from DCFS on her own kids while we lowly fosters got to eat maybe once a day, if we were lucky. But she was very generous with the beatings, which often bordered on torture (making us kneel for hours on uncooked rice seemed to be her favorite)."
Gary Malkasian
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Read - My Personal Story of Sexual Abuse in My Family -The Conclusion
If you would like to read some of the previous stories of "My Life as a Detention Officer," You will find the links listed on this post by @canadian-coconut:
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