Bullies, you find them everywhere.
Most people are familiar with them. If you think only children are bullying you are wrong. Adults make great bullies as well.
Bullies do not care about other people.
Their only goal is to break and destroy someone. A bully is capable to do so him-/herself but many have their own little helpers to do the job for them.
If you truly believe a bully is popular you are wrong.
A bully is a big loser, a piece of shit nobody will ever like.
He/she is just the chief of a bunch of even bigger losers who believe that if they help out the chief-bully they are seen as great personalities as well and they are safe.
Well losers let me wake you up.
You are not popular, will never be and you are not safe either.
You have zero self esteem for sure and your IQ can not be much either, since you do not understand that together you can beat the chief-bully easily.
Without you that "chief" of yours is helpless!
So you, bully groupies, are the ones who make it possible for a chief-bully to continue his behaviour. You are the ones who make it possible to let him bully and even kill.
To me it is clear that all those people (children and adults) just watching, and ignoring what is going on, do have a big problem.
If the situation is out of hands, a victim committed suicide, you are the first ones to speak out freely. To tell what a great or lovely child/person it was and suddenly you feel so sorry for...
To my opinion you are guilty of a crime. I also do believe something seriously went wrong if it comes to your education. I do not feel any respect for you at all.
I also feel no respect for schools and teachers.
World wide they claim to fight bullies but it only seems to get worse. In the past 50 years I have visited and get known many different schools but it is everywhere the same. If a child is bullied the teachers look in an other direction, order the victim to ignore it tell him/her to go play somewhere else. How sick can a person be to give such an answer to someone in need.
It is possible the definition of bullying has changed.
I also truly believe children 50 years ago were raised completely different from now.
As I was bullied, at first my dad went out to solve the problem (no big brother available). At a certain point he had it with me. As I came inside crying again he said: You go outside now and beat the crap out of them. If not I will do so with you in a way you will never forget! I went outside and defended myself. From that moment on my problems at school, outside on the street were over. The way my dad raised me would not be accepted now a days by neighbours or CPS but it did help me.
The bully did not recognize me any longer as his/her victim.
Although I had a tough childhood and life, there is something I always had and still have: self-esteem.
I never had doubts about me, never thought I was the cause of all trouble. This and my strong will made a fighter and survivor out of me instead of a victim.
My children were bullied as well.
Did I know they were? Yes I did. Did I stand up for my child? Yes I did.
As a parent I do not feel mercy for a bully.
I do not care if the bully is a loser, has losers for parents, a low IQ or no self-esteem.
I do not care because the bully does not care either!
Like I said before: a bully just wants to break and kill. A bully is aggressive, a narcissist, acts out of envy.
A bully is not taking revenge of those who once harmed him.
A bully just wants to kill and does not care about the fact someone is innocent.
A bully bullies because he/she is enjoying it!
Like to know more about me? Please read my other posts.
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Is it true what they say (state) about bullies?
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