Steemit is like a marriage.

Marriage takes time, effort and patience. You don't put a ring on it and not expect to lose half your earnings in front a judge within a year.

Steemit takes the same techniques used to keep a relationship together.

Commitment

You have to be committed to Steemit. If you only post here and there, you can't expect to gain followers.

Consistency

If you act like a gentleman one day and a bipolar maniac the next, it won't be long before she leaves you for a more stable fella. Same with your Steemit followers. They want a blog they can count on to provide quality content that also entertains.

Communication

Communication is key to any interpersonal relationship. Respond to those who comment on your posts. Comment on other's articles with thought provoking commentary related to the subject matter. Start a conversation! Ask questions to clarify a point. Share your knowledge. Communicate!

Patience

When things stagnate, you don't just pack your bags and head for a hotel. You spice things up! It took patience to woo her into a relationship- it takes time and patience to build your Steemit blog.

Nothing good happens overnight.